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From one layered soul to another—here’s what I’ve learned along the way.
  • April 17, 2025 at 10:30 PM
    Tawakkul: Trusting God Without Losing Yourself

    Tawakkul isn’t about doing nothing and hoping for the best. It’s about doing your part—with effort and intention—then releasing control over the outcome.

    This post explores what real trust in God looks like when you’re anxious, overthinking, or healing.
    Tawakkul doesn’t mean you never feel fear—it means you move with trust anyway. You don’t have to be perfectly calm to have faith.
    You just have to keep showing up.

  • April 10, 2025 at 9:00 PM
    Red Flags Muslims Should Look Out for in Therapy—And How to Find the Right Fit

    Not every therapist will understand your faith or culture—and that matters. In this post, I break down the red flags Muslims should watch for in therapy, and how to find a therapist who truly honors your values, identity, and healing journey.

  • April 9, 2025 at 11:00 PM
    Can Muslims Go to Therapy? What Islam Actually Says About Healing

    Many Muslims wonder if going to therapy is Islamically acceptable. In this post, I explore that question through the lens of faith, culture, and lived experience—sharing why therapy isn’t a sign of weak iman, but a valid, often necessary, step toward healing. Therapy can coexist with trust in Allah, and for many, it’s one of the ways we honor our mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

  • April 8, 2025 at 1:30 PM
    They Say I’m Expired. I Say I’m Just Getting Started.

    In this deeply personal post, I open up about being a 25-year-old Pakistani Muslim woman who has never been married or in a serious relationship—and why that’s not something I’m ashamed of. I reflect on cultural pressure, how transactional marriage can feel in our communities, and the peace I found in surrendering to Allah’s timeline. This isn’t a story about being behind—it’s about becoming. It’s about choosing faith, alignment, and self-worth over timelines, fear, or settling.

  • April 7, 2025 at 12:30 PM
    Therapy Wasn’t Made for People Like Me—So I Created Crescent Counseling & Coaching

    In this personal and heartfelt post, I share why I created Crescent Counseling & Coaching—because traditional therapy often left out people like me: Muslim, South Asian, and Middle Eastern individuals with layered identities shaped by culture, faith, and family. I open up about my own experience of feeling unseen in therapy and how that inspired me to build a space where healing doesn’t require you to choose between your roots and your growth. This post is for anyone who’s ever felt like they didn’t belong in therapy. Crescent was made for you.

  • April 6, 2025 at 12:00 AM
    How ADHD Shows Up Differently in Males vs. Females (And Why So Many Women Get Missed)

    ADHD has long been misunderstood — especially in how it presents across genders. For decades, research and diagnosis were largely based on hyperactive boys in classroom settings, leaving many girls and women overlooked, misdiagnosed, or struggling in silence.

    In this post, we’ll explore:

    • How ADHD commonly shows up in males vs. females
    • Why gender bias still exists in diagnosis
    • The internalized impact on women and girls
    • What to look for if you think you’ve been missed
  • April 5, 2025 at 11:00 PM
    You're Not Lazy — You're Overloaded: How High-Achievers with ADHD Can Thrive

    High-achieving individuals with ADHD often carry a quiet, heavy shame. You may look successful on the outside, but inside, you're battling disorganization, overwhelm, decision paralysis, and exhaustion. This contradiction can be confusing — even painful — and it often leads to the false conclusion: "Something must be wrong with me."

    This post will explore why high-achievers with ADHD often struggle behind the scenes, what executive dysfunction really is, and how building the right kind of structure can change everything.

  • March 17, 2025 at 5:00 PM
    Ramadan: A Meaningful Month for Both Muslims and Non-Muslims

    In this post, we explore the essence of Ramadan—why it’s observed by Muslims worldwide, and how its focus on self-discipline, gratitude, and community service can inspire personal growth and emotional resilience for everyone, regardless of religious affiliation.

  • February 10, 2025 at 6:00 AM
    From First-Generation Graduate to Thriving Professional: My Journey to Work-Life Balance

    As a first-generation immigrant and the first in my family to graduate from college and earn a master’s degree, I’ve navigated the challenges of balancing cultural expectations, personal ambitions, and professional goals. Growing up, I felt the weight of my family’s sacrifices and the pressure to succeed, often at the expense of my own well-being. Over time, I learned that achieving a healthy work-life balance is essential—not just for professional success but for personal fulfillment.

  • January 26, 2025 at 5:00 AM
    Why We’re More Motivated to Change When We Invest More

    This article explores how investment—whether financial, emotional, or time-based—helps create accountability, reinforces self-worth, and drives long-term change.

  • December 22, 2024 at 9:30 AM
    Embracing Emotions and Finding Strength in Vulnerability

    As a Pakistani Muslim woman, I grew up suppressing emotions due to cultural beliefs that viewed emotional expression as weakness. This left me feeling silenced and disconnected. Through self-discovery, I learned that vulnerability is a strength, allowing me to embrace my emotions and live authentically.

    Now, as a therapist and coach, I help others from diverse backgrounds challenge similar narratives, honor their feelings, and build lives rooted in emotional authenticity and self-compassion.

  • December 15, 2024 at 10:00 AM
    Navigating Cultural Pressures and Mental Health: Supporting South Asian Men in Therapy

    South Asian men face unique mental health challenges influenced by cultural expectations, familial pressures, and societal norms. As a therapist, I work to create culturally sensitive spaces where these individuals can explore their identities and struggles.

    Earlier this month, I partnered with the South Asian American Policy & Research Institute (SAAPRI) to present on this topic, focusing on addressing stigma, integrating family dynamics, and tailoring therapeutic approaches to South Asian men’s needs. Together, we aim to foster growth, break down barriers, and empower South Asian men to prioritize their mental health.